Comments on: Three things to leave behind in 2021: Perfectionism, Distraction & Comparison – by Shovorne Adams

By: Sabreena

Sabreena — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 15:38:30 +0000

This is reminder I need more often than I’d like to admit. You said it beautifully , “ When you get so focused on desiring someone’s else’s triumphs and victories, you overlook your own wins. “

By: Joseph

Joseph — Sat, 01 Jan 2022 02:36:09 +0000

I definitely find myself procrastinating through fear. The fear of failure fools us (global us) into thinking that it’s better to put it off. But then we get trapped in little bubbles where we’re unhappy, bottling up our feelings until we either give up completely or just get on with it. Neither way is healthy.

Another thing that can cause procrastination though is issues with ‘executive functioning’ (the ability for the brain to do tasks), and that may be a sign of neurodiverseness. So if it keeps happening, or showing up with other possible signs of autism or ADHD, it would be a good idea to find a psychologist.

By: Mawuena

Mawuena — Thu, 30 Dec 2021 13:29:00 +0000

The world just got a bit better because of this post. If people would just trust that there is room for all of us, I believe a lot of the worlds problems would be solved.

We have to push each other forward and not allow the toxic mindsets mentioned into our thinking. Thanks for this! xxx

By: Jessica

Jessica — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 18:43:33 +0000

Thank you for this. Very encouraging. xx

By: Karen

Karen — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 17:21:38 +0000

Thank you for the post. It was a great article . Thought provoking and so true.

By: Stacey Pardoe

Stacey Pardoe — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 14:52:31 +0000

This spoke straight to my heart today, friend! Thanks so much for gently calling us to a better way of being!

By: Patti Burkett

Patti Burkett — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 14:09:10 +0000

Love this! What a great reminder of 3 things I definitely want to leave behind in 2021. I’m especially working on ditching the perfectionism.

By: Norchella

Norchella — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 12:04:50 +0000

Its beautiful, its a reminder that we always let things like that take over the joy of life.

By: Michelle Dione

Michelle Dione — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 10:46:09 +0000

Thank you for this post.. I found this truly inspiring. Distraction and comparison I’m still working on.

By: Sharen Dion

Sharen Dion — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 08:23:38 +0000

Thank you for this post. I found the words you wrote quite encouraging and it has realigned my focus in 2022.